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i just missed celebrating the day i was first installed to the fediverse by a few days :blobcattilt:

i have been here since 2018! :blobcatsurprised:

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Help Cobalt Get A Safe Home fundraiser 

gofund.me/421b3492

I know y'all are broke folks, but if you could boost this that'd be great. 💙

I'm trying to escape from a stressful/sometimes verbally abusive home situation, because having to keep falling back on my shitty defenses and bad coping mechanisms is keeping me from working on my boundary issues and just generally becoming the person that I want to be.

My escape plan is to get a cheap van conversion and live in that, but even the cheapest vans are more than I have money for, and I'm disabled enough that it's very hard for me to earn money. Still, I found a van that I really love, and I'd love to be able to get it.

Please help a Black, indigenous, homeless, or home-insecure person first! I don't feel emotionally safe but I am not physically insecure, and I have food. I'm just trying to reach for a life that feels like more than survival.

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i heard some people feel like they have to “earn” food?

i think that is silly.

everyone deserves as many tasty bytes as they want whenever they want them imo :blobmiou: pls don’t feel bad about eating!

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armchair psych 

I'm quiet IRL and lots of people interpret that quietness as snobbery. I don't interrupt, so mutual interrupters think I'm not listening. I'm an Asker, and Guessers will absolutely fill the lack of subtext with their own private subtexts which are often extremely local to their own social circles. I think part of why it's considered an internet thing to be misinterpreted is because the internet is a mixture of many different kinds of people all having an etiquette clash

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I won't be there tomorrow so, happy caturday, @netkitty, @stux, and all other frends, awoo! :3

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I'm a guy named Elizabeth sometimes because I'm genderfluid/genderflux and no one can stop me.

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Hello, is anyone interested in these 2 sets of dice by Chessex? They are the frosted 7-die-sets in smoke and red. Also, I have a set of 8 dice in frosted blue, with 3 4-sided dice, d8, d10 and d100 (10s), d12 and d20. DM please. :d20: Boost okay!

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Hey you.. 

You are loved! ❤️ :blobcathug: :blobcatsnuggle:

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this is the lockpickinglawyer and for you today i have this ankle monitoring device
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I have a few reflections and advice on the 5-year anniversary of coming out as transgender:

1. The best piece of advice I got: "Your transition belongs to you." There are no true rules in this. You don't even have to transition, and you certainly don't have to transition to anything established, or understandable to anyone else.

There are no objective body schedules or social milestones. You are free to make up WHATEVER you want. And you are free to push for your standards to be respected and assisted. Transition belongs to you.

Outside of hard-and-fast medical numbers and safety guidelines (real physical safety, not gatekeeping bullshit), you'll encounter invisible rails attempting to direct your experience. It's alright to oppose this, and to call them out. But the core of your experience is your own, and that can't be taken away.

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